After an emotionless John Prescott admits he never shows affection to his son... Why don’t men hug their kids?
By THEODORE
DALRYMPLE
Well I never
thought I should come to the defense of John Prescott but I am on his side when
it comes to his failure to hug his son (as he revealed on Desert Island Discs)
or tell him on air (during the Jeremy Vine show) that he loved him.
The very fact
that he should have been asked to do so demonstrates how our increasing
tendency to express emotion in public, both in word and deed, actually
undermines our ability to distinguish genuine from bogus feeling. There is no
reason to suppose that Lord Prescott is other than a loving father. He does not
need to hug his son or tell him he loves him for his love to be evident, it is
clear from his whole manner of treating and being with him, not from gestures
such as hugs.